For the last year, I’ve had a new found appreciation for questions. More to the point, I’ve had a new found appreciation for asking the right question or at least seeking passionately what those “right” questions might be.
There is a person I know who was a great salesperson. That person became a great public speaker and they know how have a book. The person I speak of is Rory Vaden. He cut his teeth on both sales and motivational speaking at the Southwestern Company selling books door to door. His book is called “Take the Stairs” and it adequately describes the centrepiece of his strategy for success in life.

In a single word, it’s “discipline”. That’s the key. The reason some people succeed and the reason other people do not is it comes down to self-discipline.
I was thinking about this, and I agree self-discipline is important and in fact necessary, but I don’t think it’s the key. I don’t think it’s the trigger. I don’t think that to a person who lacks self-discipline the answer is more self-discipline.. at least not directly.
Because I knew another great salesperson as well. He might have been rough around the edges in the interpersonal skills, but he could sell.. And even better than being able to sell other people is that he made an even more important sale to himself - that he was a great salesperson. The reason that’s important is that he had to learn everything it took to be successful. He wasn’t a natural, at least not how you’d think of a natural in any case.
Now discipline was obviously a requirement, but it was something more. He was hungry. He was determined.. He was focused.
The key, if it was useful to think of there being a “key” to success, is focus. There’s a great movie that I like very much. It’s fanciful and unrealistic, but I like the ideas behind it.. what it represents. It’s called Limitless, and although it’s just a Hollywood movie, I think we can learn a thing or two.

The movie is about our anti-hero who is a self-defeating writer who cannot be describe as anything nicer than a deadbeat. However, due to some untested NZT, he is able to dramatically alter his life path… to live the “best” version of himself.
The key, again was focus. The reason I like focus a lot better than discipline is because one is constrained, limiting and controlling and the other is fluid, empowering and dynamic.
Discipline is always a necessary component of achievement, but I don’t think it should ever be the end goal. It’s a tool in the tool belt, but it’s not what determines what you should build. Focus, I think, has the best elements of discipline and a whole lot more.
Focus is when someone is passionately building something they just know needs to exist in this world… whether that’s a craftsman who is creating some work of art, or it’s an entrepreneur banging away on his keyboard building the next Facebook.
Focus is empowering because it’s motivating and inspiring. Focus (and all of those other things) can come as a RESULT of doing the right thing, of asking the right question. And in reality, I think helping people find FOCUS in their life (instead of self-discipline) would be a much more scalable and sticky way of approaching the problem of a lack of motivation and a lack of a drive for success.
This applies both to sales and career as much as to learning and self improvement.
So to answer the question what drives people to succeed.. I don’t think the goal is self-discipline and again, I don’t think the answer to a person who lacks self-discipline is MORE discipline (talk about compounding weakness on weakness). People on this planet earth have varying degrees of propensity for self-restraint and self motivation. However, I am an ardent believer that EVERYONE on this planet earth absolutely has at least one thing that they can get fired up about.. that when they talk about this thing, whatever it is, their eyes begin to sparkle and they can talk about whatever it is with conviction. Some call this passion, others inspiration. I think the key component here is a crystallizing focus which, when harnessed for good, can lead to not just inspired emotions and inspired speeches, but inspired action and inspired results.